This is us in 2017.. wow how things have changed but he is so much sexier now.. |
This is my hubby and I!! He is so handsome.. what I didn't know was how much of a poop head he was.. haha just kidding. I love him and we were together for about 2 years before we got married.
Brandon was dating a girl of 5 years when I met him at Best Buy. The guys in my department (digital imaging) used to joke with me about getting his jersey when I didn't know him but I was not interested. This was my first year at Ball State and I had just found out that the guy I was dating for the last year had a girlfriend the whole time we were dating. Since he was at Purdue, it was easy for him to pull off. It worked out for the best because now that guy is married with twins.. I am happy for him..
However, long story short Brandon was still dating this girl named Lauren but they were not doing good relationship wise. There were a lot of problems. Brandon didn't believe me one day when I was listening to christina music in the computer department because his exact words to me were " you listen to that kind of music, " yes I was shocked but supposedly one day I bent over to get a camera for a customer and my thong was showing and my tattoo (yes a tramp stamp).. To his knowledge christian girls did not wear thongs or have tramp stamps. He was surprised but the flirting on his end started and he invited me to a christian event since he knew was I was going through. Not know it was ran by his girlfriends aunt, the event that evening was quite awkward.
Without going into so much detail since I just started this blog and I do not really want to go back that far, brandon and his girlfriend were still having issues so he would message me on Facebook at 11pm every night after he left her home. We would continue to talk every evening and then he wanted to break up with her. This obviously did not go well and he tried many times to get me to help him but I did not want to be that girl. Honestly, at this time I was not attracted to him that way. I had been through a lot and I was not about to be the backup.. Anyways, he ended up breaking it off but continued to communicate with her every day. In fact, one day she called probably 15 times in 1 hour and I finally had to say " if you want to keep this going, keep answering the phone, if you want this to end, you have got to stop." At this point, I knew he would listen to about anything I said because for some reason I was a breath of fresh air to him.
3 weeks later, we started dating, brandon still could not get the courage to give me a hug but one day he did and I think he ran like a school girl afterwards he was so nervous. Not long after was our first kiss, which I do not remember and then he said he loved me.. To be honest, I do not remember these details, if you know us, you will have to ask him. I just don't remember, but I do remember things that are not as important, which sucks sometimes.
June 23, 2012 was our wedding day.. it went so fast and now we have two boys..
We don't even look like the same people.. Amazing how things change |